The joys of
being a fan and collecting have been on my mind ever since I saw "Fever
Pitch." In the movie Jimmy Fallon plays Ben, a Boston Red Sox
fan. His home was stocked with memorabilia, from the time he got up in the
morning to when he got ready for bed, all he saw was red.
But what did Drew Barrymore's character, Lindsey, get for her troubles
besides a beau who was always busy during baseball season? She found a
passionate man who knew how to love life.
Experts agree that passion is typically the common denominator amongst
collectors.
However, Canadian Psychiatrist and author of "First Aid to Mental Illness" Dr.
Michael G. Rayel doesn't think that there's a certain personality type for
collectors.
Rayel said collecting is an individual's choice based on their
passions.
Some, he says, like
music fans collecting CDs, may collect so they always have access to the
music that makes them happy.
Sometimes, collections serve as trophies
pointing the way to people's interests. But Rayel did offer one
generalization.
"We all want something to represent ourselves," Rayel said.
Susan Neri-Friedwald, a behavior modification specialist and founder of the
New Behavior Institute in Manhattan, says that surrounding ourselves with
things creates a sense of security.
She added that we identify with the
objects we collect and they strengthen our sense of self.
"We might collect things that remind us of our childhood, connecting us to
the feelings of safety we had then," she said. "We might collect things that
reflect who we wish to be and it makes us feel more powerful and more connected to those images."
So collected objects are manifestations of our inner hopes...?
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